SPIRIT OF SELF CONTROL

                               

                                                                                                                  SPIRIT OF SELF CONTROL


                                                                                                                                                           Proverbs 25:28 reveals something very vital…….
*'Like a city that is broken down and without walls [leaving it unprotected] Is a man who has no self-control over his spirit [and sets himself up for trouble].' indiscipline is the root cause of immorality!!!*
What do we do?
*1. Identify your weaknesses!* Stop trying to cover this part of you….identify it and deal with it! There is nothing good about a sexual weakness. Don’t feed it! Master it!
You mustn’t counsel ladies!
*2.There are certain issues you should hand over to Female leaders to handle! Stop putting yourself under pressure!* Sometimes I wonder why Brothers would rather mentor all the ladies in Church…..brothe
rs need help too!
*3. Keep your counseling official! Don’t build anything personal.*
Stop all those distracting discussions!...
...where are you? Have you eaten? What are you wearing? I love your voice….brother is that part of your calling? Such discussions are not necessary.
*4. Respect and honor the calling of God upon your life! Don’t drag His name to the mud.*
If you are
burning….please marry! If you are married, enjoy your wife and if you are married and still lusting after others ladies….please cry out for help! You need the word therapy!
*5. Avoid counseling behind close doors.* I know you are strong Man of God but you see we are people of passions…….anything’ seeable ‘ can trigger and put a man in the mood…..keep the doors and window open for proper ventilation and easy escape(lols)
Be self-controlled!
The ability is inside! The church should be the one teaching the world sexual sanity! I understand the temptations knocking your door daily but you are more than able to overcome these temptations.
Don’t mind those sisters wearing clothes revealing hips,boobs and contours……you will see these everyday,everywhere…..but filter your thought! Guard your heart! Be like Joseph who saw immorality as wickedness (Gen 39:9).
The Grace of God is sufficient for thee!!!!! *Choose to stay pure! Your body is God’s temple too






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